Community Guidelines for LIVES

🌴 MyWalksInParadise: TikTok Live Guidelines & Community Expectations 🌴

Hey Bob Squad—
I want to start by saying how much I deeply value the beautiful community we’ve built together. Your support, love, and shared joy have made these LIVEs something I truly look forward to each day. That said, it’s time I draw a clear and respectful line in the beach sand.

I’ve had to address repeated violations of basic boundaries that I’ve set—and re-set—on my LIVEs. While most of you come here to escape, laugh, and share peaceful vibes, a few folks continue to disregard these expectations. It’s affecting mine & others’ mental health, energy, and ultimately the joy we feel in these lives. That’s not okay.

Let’s be real: this is my platform, my space, and my peace. If you choose to join my LIVE, you agree to uphold these standards. No exceptions. After all this is my BUSINESS.

⚠️ LIVE Guidelines (Read them. Respect them. These are my TRIGGERS!):

1. No Negativity:
   No negative news, no drama, no medical issues. This is a stress-free wake      zone. We try our hardest to focus on the positive here. One negative      comment can derail an entire live. I will give occasional tips to manage      anxiety, PTSD & Depression. For background my Mom’s a hypochondriac,      so I tend to not be as empathetic to that as I could be.
2. Absolutely No Politics, Shell Policing or Religion Shaming:
       Those topics are divisive, and this platform is about connection—not      contention. There is only 1 judge, and if you’re reading this, you’re not it!
3. No Self-Promotion, Cross-Promotion, or Money Requests:
   1. Do not promote your own page, business, or another creator’s live without my permission.
   2. Do NOT solicit money, donations, or emotional support that leads to financial asks—no GoFundMe links, etc, no “just need a little help” stories. We all have problems and are trying to enjoy a moment of peace in Paradise. If someone comes to you, or guilts you to help them, please let me know right away. I have a ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY for this!

If I haven’t approved of it, please don’t do it. I am not heartless—but I am protective of this community. I’ve seen people manipulate & guilt others with stories that later prove to be untrue. I won’t allow it here. I am very generous to many I encounter, but I don’t feel the need to share like others do to gain favor or clout. Remember assumptions aren’t reality. 

1. Respect My Voice:
   Don’t correct, contradict, or “actually…” me on my livestream. It’s a PTSD Trigger. If I’ve made a mistake, feel free to DM me respectfully after the LIVE. I’ll own it—I promise. Also, I do have issues from my Concussions, so no need to point out every little mistake, incorrect words, or things my lips don’t get correctly from my brain. Sometimes I think the correct thing and say something random.
2. No Unsolicited Advice or Forcing Personal Opinions:
   Want to rant? Use your own platform. Unless advice is asked for, don’t give it. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but no one has the right to force it on anyone else! I am also not a fan of shoulda, coulda, wouldas so please don’t do that to me. I hate being told what to do, because I have PTSD, and this is another major Trigger for me. I am great at managing my PTSD, but avoiding triggers help. Even I still have work to      do. A lot of times I will internalize these triggers after the lives are over, and it’s not fair to take more of my bandwidth than I’ve already given.
3. Moderator Decisions Are Final:
   If a host/mod mutes you, it’s for a reason. Do not challenge it during the LIVE. If it was accidental, we’ll resolve it in the Clapper chat privately. If another Mod has muted or blocked someone, please don’t assume it was a mistake & undo, most of the time it was Mr. Paradise that wanted it!
4. No Spoilers (Seriously):
   If you’ve seen the outcome (especially sports) of something I’m reacting to or previously posted—keep it to yourself. Spoilers kill engagement and impact how the algorithm promotes my content.
5. Things I Can’t Control (Assumptions Aren’t Reality):

I can do a lot of things, but I can’t do them all. Things like wind, internet signals, shell order issues while I’m live, & TikTok related problems are out of my control. The beach tends to be windy. I use a microphone & windscreen, but those only work so much. I even stream during Hurricanes. I’m aware of the wind, whether the signal is good (it shows right on my screen), & I don’t work for TikTok so can’t answer for them, besides saying update app. If it be glitching don’t be bitchin, and tap thru the lag, don’t nag through the lag. This is a major PTSD Trigger, and my mods will mute you.

🚫 Enforcement Policy:

• 1st      Violation = Gentle Mute
• 2nd    Violation = Muted again for entire Live
• 3rd     Strike = Blocked (Possibly permanently)
  Zero tolerance for repeated disrespect. Serious violations are blocked on      1st Offense! Anyone that shows they aren’t here for the right reason can immediately go to the sin bin of shame for eternity!

🧘‍♀️ Why This Matters:

This community was created for stress relief, mental health support, escapism, and most importantly—a chill, fun, drama-free vibe for all people! When boundaries are crossed or triggers are ignored, it derails everything we’re building. If I feel disrespected or triggered, I will end the LIVE immediately—no warning given.

🫶 Final Thought:

If you’re here for good vibes, laughter, beach walks, shells, food & a break from the chaos—we welcome you with open arms, regardless of your own persuasion. But if you can’t respect these guidelines, this may not be the space for you.

With love and boundaries,
Bob – mywalksInparadise